Saturday, 20 September 2008
Breast Cancer true story
Eva is a good friend of mine who's home is behind mine.We have known one another for 5 years.I feel fortunate to have her as my neighbor.
Inflammatory Breast Cancer
This news story looks at the signs of a very deadly form of breast cancer called inflammatory breast cancer.
Breast Cancer Art Project by Toby Jones
My mother died of metastasized breast cancer in February of 2001 after valiantly struggling with the disease for five years. After her death, in the years that followed, a large part of coping with the emptiness in my life was my art. I first started what I now call the "Fiberglass Busts Project" driven by subconscious motives I wouldn't understand until much later. It began from a need to create something out of the emptiness in my life, a time consuming project to fill my days with errands and give me a reason to get out of bed in the morning. Earlier in 2001, I had gotten it into my head that I wanted to create a sculpture using fiberglass, a media I had never worked with before. In the past, I had made countless three dimensional pieces out of paper mache, a favorite medium of mine. It is an easy, cheap and forgiving material to work with, but ultimately the end result always felt temporary. Of all the paper mache sculptures I had created in college, not one of them survived in a U-Haul. For what I was preparing to do, that subconscious motivation was telling me I needed to go stronger, more durable. permanent.
Breast Cancer Treatment Alternative - Hyperthermia
Cancer Institute, using Heat Treatment, Hyperthermia, in conjunction with low radiation dose, Hyper fractionation. Superficial tumors like Breast Cancer, Inflammatory Breast Cancer, Prostate, head and neck, and skin cancer are successfully treated with Hyperthermia, at the VCI in Los Angeles, California, since 1985. No drugs, surgery or high radiation dose is used. FDA approved, and paid by most insurances. Side effects are minimum or none.
Inflammatory Breast Cancer Symptoms
NewsCenter 5's Kelley Tuthill reports on inflammatory breast cancer.
Inflammatory Breast Cancer
Breast cancer is something women think they know all about: Look for lumps; have mammograms; see our doctors.
But none of that will save you from one silent breast cancer killer that women know virtually nothing about.
It's called "inflammatory breast cancer," and it's something every woman must know about.
Friday, 19 September 2008
Genes & Breast Cancer
Genes influence the chances of breast cancer reoccuring and if the tumors respond to chemotherapy.
Breast Cancer Treatments & Your Heart
Dr.Ramo and Marisa Maez talk about treating breast cancer, which could lead to heart problems for some women.
Racial Differences In Breast Cancer
Dr. Timothy Johnson talks about racial differences in breast cancer.
How to Do Breast Cancer Self Exams : Breast Cancer Self Exam Wedge Method
Learn about the wedge method of doing a breast cancer self exam to identify breast cancer symptoms in this free health care video clip.
Breast Cancer T-Shirts Banned At Kansas School
Two Salina Central High School seniors designed T-shirts to raise money for breast cancer awareness, but an assistant principal banned one of the designs from school. The shirts bear the phrase "Sa...
Two Salina Central High School seniors designed T-shirts to raise money for breast cancer awareness, but an assistant principal banned one of the designs from school. The shirts bear the phrase "Save 2nd Base" with a pair of baseballs over the wearers' breasts.
Officials said the shirts violate the district's dress code, which bans clothing with an "implied indecent meaning."
New Breast Cancer Breakthrough
New scientific research has uncovered some surprising findings about breast cancer cases of young women. CBS News medical correspondent Dr. Mallika Marshall reports on this recent medical discovery.
Breast Cancer And MRIs
mammogram, may lead to early detection. Dr. Holly Phillips speaks with Maggie Rodriguez.
Breast cancer real story
Emma Duncan, 33, talks about her experience of breast cancer including being diagnosed, her treatment and the importance of checking your breasts regularly
IBC Inflammatory Breast Cancer news story
IBC: Inflammatory Breast Cancer
News story from KOMO in Seattle
Breast Cancer - Breast Check Demonstration
The second part in a demonstration on a product that will assist in the early detection of breast cancer.
breast cancer symptoms
Cancer is a term for diseases in which abnormal cells divide without control,Other than skin cancer breast cancer is the most common type of cancer found in women is this country. Common symptoms of breast cancer include a change in how the breast or nipple feels and a change in how the breast or nipple looks.
Breast Cancer Awareness 2
This is a video I made myself. Sorry the pictures are so long, i had to do that so it would last through the song.
Song: Who You'd Be Today-Kenny Chesney
Breast Cancer Awareness
An abstract video created by me and two friends "Think Ahead..Before it spreads"... WARNING: this video is officially COPYRIGHTED and owned by a breast cancer foundation. Any attempt to copy must pay a ransom of 250,000 USD and is most likely to be sued.
Breast Cancer---Rascall Flatts (Sara Beth)
Thank You so Much For Everyones Prayers And Thoughts.
My Mother Finished Her Chemo Therapy and She is Doing Much Better.
Cancer Free!
I Pray That We FInd a Cure.
Breast Cancer - An Inspiring Video
A compilation of images and music in a inspiring music video for those touched by breast cancer.
Dr Chris Steele demonstrates how to examine your breasts
The video may not be suitable for minors
live model, demonstrates how to self-examine your breasts to detect signs of breast cancer
Cathy Baskin: Battling Breast Cancer Story
With October being Breast Cancer Awareness month,Cathy Baskin shares her story of battling breast cancer but she is have is having a hard time trying to receive assistance for her medical care
Thursday, 11 September 2008
FDA APPROVES HERCEPTIN® FOR THE ADJUVANT TREATMENT OF
FDA APPROVES HERCEPTIN® FOR THE ADJUVANT TREATMENT OF HER2-POSITIVE NODE-POSITIVE BREAST CANCERGenentech, Inc. announced today that the U.S. Food and Drug
Administration (FDA) approved Herceptin® (Trastuzumab) for the adjuvant treatment of HER2-positive node-positive breast cancer, as part of a treatment regimen containing doxorubicin, cyclophosphamide, and paclitaxel. The FDA approval was based on data from an interim joint analysis of more than 3,500 patients enrolled in two Phase III clinical trials.
These results showed that the addition of Herceptin to standard adjuvant therapy significantly reduced the risk of breast cancer recurrence, the primary endpoint of the studies, by 52 percent in women with HER2-positive breast cancer, compared to those patients who received standard adjuvant therapy alone.
Adjuvant therapy is given to women with early-stage (localized) breast cancer who have had initial treatment -- surgery with or without radiation therapy -- with the goal of reducing the risk of cancer recurrence and/or the occurrence of metastatic disease.
Wednesday, 3 September 2008
Shihua an ordinary railway police story
Shihua, 42-year-old, an ordinary railway police. Not long ago, has just finished breast cancer surgery, chemotherapy is still continuing. Shihua was obvious with the occupational characteristics: strong, readily, Taitailielie and rough in the fine. Shihua interview, she was in a friend's house. Shi Hua said ill after his brother's house to free up her live, immediately to begin renovation. "Yesterday I was on set with the decoration companies", she would like to see the decoration themselves, because to let others do not stare at her confidence. Shihua friend told me that she should Qinliqinwei everything, Taidalielie Although the surface, in fact very carefully. "I Zhaimao son," Dale Ge invited, Tiliaoguangtou Shihua point of the cigarette, she said that the original finish to quit smoking after surgery for sure, but the doctor a very human touch, then let her connivance of his, "The doctor said it would like to be out at the appropriate Shaochou point." May be "old cancer" is still short, Shihua talk about the pain the most is the experience. Operating table to my own signed the The first is a proliferation of breast found by chance, Butongbuyang a lump, I never Nata Dang matter. In fact, we units per year in addition to a normal physical examination, the women returned to arrange a medical examination, but I have never been, I think he will not sick, not the usual kind of Jiaoqi on the people, what a cold fever, an anti-resistance in the past , Did not expect this time-"generously". In particular the six months before the surgery, it Meng long, but I was not the hospital. The end of last year, careful not to cook at home to burn the eyes, living in the hospital for five days, will soon be discharged, I went to visit cancer awareness before a doctor, the way she would like to look at, the doctor shocked, Experts in diagnosis, I hasten to require hospitalization surgery, so I go from eye cancer. At that time, precisely to the Chinese New Year, I insist, such as the End, the re-operation, this also delayed for some time. Others are being pushed into the surgery or a wheelchair into the operating room in a large group of family members waiting outside. My mother told Mogan age too much, my brother in the field film did not tell him that I Pidianpidian a person with the doctor entered the operating room. Liuzi taken out of operation is long, and I asked to see one, that was a like Kao Baishu such a big pink things, the doctor said there are lumps, it cut a small mouth, revealing a gray meat, The naked eye can see things like a small grain of rice. At that time, the doctor told me: "Shihua, not so good, but pull, such as pathology report is not out to see the need to continue to do so." I was pushed to the operating room corridor. His right hand forced Zuoxiong wounds, Yan Baba waiting for the fate of the ruling, I think the waiting time is longer than a lifetime. Henluan mind a time, but have a feeling: I think doctors in the operating table for many years, the general can also use their experience to judge a few, but at the same time feel lucky: may be a false alarm, what things are It did not. The test results come out, the doctor told me: We both have to a large area to clean. This has nothing of the. My first thought is: can not let my mom know, and then think of is to inform my good friend to the hospital. The doctor with me to discuss this first with the left, and then only open another pathology testing, because the breast is also another serious proliferation. Then I became a special cooling-off: both with bar, two pain and a pain! I convinced the doctor has changed. I am afraid the bear is a painful, the doctor had to let me a second surgery. Because without the experience, whether painful, so also do the surgery, and so I know after this painful process to the second, then I estimate that the psychological burden than to serious illness, I do not know they are not also Have the courage to come back with another doctor judgement of the breast will not be too good, I agree with the request, saying that to the families of the signing, I said no to family members, I have come, for their own signed the surgery, Later, patients ask me the time of signing Shoudou no buffeting, I said no buffeting a little bit, special decisive. Finally biopsy results show that I belong to the other breast that severe proliferation, if not removed, then at the same time, such as the restoration of a section of a surgery done, then "kill" another. I do not have as many patients as a wide variety of choices-conserving surgery, said White, to whom I look at it, completely radical, keep life is the first one, not any other burden, to mention this counted as the single " Advantages ". The doctor gave me an operation later Haigen to chat with me, that I admire very, calm, resolute, unlike other patients, and said to me the employment-related, I might say yes. Hui to go to three I finally into the barber shop After the surgery, I was "Wuhuataibang" lying in bed the whole three and a half days, was a dynamic Chazhuo tubes also can not move, only to head to Rotary. Zuiteng the time is pulling the tubes, clean the wound, the kind of feeling now like to also Sixinliefei, I was at the scene of two students, that female students simply can not by me, after also scared to see the wound in pa Cry on the pillow, by male students had to clean the wound when I have Dan Qilai the Tengde. However, a tube pulled out, I get out of bed on the world's greatest experiences. Patients say that I am brave, in fact, I can not lie down in bed. I like this group of people playing, playing what line is not at home Daizhao, I told my Ma Shui-Youchou. That you may not believe that the fever of 40 degrees faster, people playing mahjong San Queyi, I will be to "save the market." If this is also not allowed to lie down again mad » I was invasive ductal carcinoma stage , at first I do not know anything, Zhuizhuo asked the doctor, she did not tell me, but I understand that the most serious is Ⅳ stage, I view this enough heavy. To a person at this time there is a contradiction of the special psychological: fear that illness and want to know, the fact that the more psychological pressure on the bigger, but still could not help but ask. Sometimes think such a high level of medicine, there is nothing to fear, sometimes carefully pondering: Do we should really be dead » This is too reprisal of the bar, I do not live enough. And do not have to say what the thing did not stem, at least I am not playing enough then, a relaxation of the heart is well alive. The previous unit with colleagues held a joke: the dead had died on what is there to fear. But now see is not quite the case, the only truly understand how life should be cherished. Some time ago I always cry at night, I Bingyou Men Zaijiao "soldiers", I told them: "the soldiers" did not cry when you see. In this disease in people are aware that surgery is only a first step towards the end of Long March. The next chemotherapy is a major ordeal. For us in terms of such patients, chemotherapy can not be omitted a part, is the infusion of chemotherapy, kill cancer cells in the liquid and also killed a large number of cells useful life. As WBC too low (I sometimes low to the WBC 1600), Bahrain before chemotherapy or white needles, chemotherapy was begun by the arm wrist from the bottom-up, a chemotherapy, those blood vessels become very brittle, next only In the upper point of. Bingyou Men said he had no placehave to foot-binding, I can not let that foot firmly, if problems Zou Bule way how to do. On the third day after chemotherapy, is the most difficult time, response to systemic chemotherapy joint pain, the whole people will Tengde deformation, Melania libertina do a mission, the reduction in bed unable to tremble, eating a meal of the efforts have not, that I really feel is not described. After think, what people most courageous, chemotherapy patients should be counted as one of the. Diao Toufa chemotherapy is the "success" one, as if no one can escape Guozheyiguan. In looking at patients who heads the Xixilala several Liu hair, I was saddened on: "Anyway, sooner or later have to swap, to swap a little bit more uncomfortable mind, as the rationale for a skinhead." So I decided to swap hair shaved before . But this is easier said that done is not so easy, you want a woman, has no breast, no hair, not to others, you have to explain it to ourselves. I find a special small barber shop, he was at the time of the Barber, the chef so later, the ride is two minutes, I do not want to shave, leave out, and take the tens of meters and folding back to the gate , And turned away, this time went even further, finally returned to barber shop. Barber, I have been hand-Wuzhe eyes, wait until the chef said, "Well," I only came to the heart. In fact, the past, I really did not too concerned about my hair, how his life has become Duochoushangan patients, these people do not really have any treasure what, there is nothing to think what! However, I firmly refused to wear false caps, I suspected heat, but no matter how false it is also a really can not. My hair is now a one to the enemy, the swap out on the bar, Fortunately, the future still up long. I am sick to the weight of a friend Illness is really a special painful thing, but you can really get the things you are not normal times. My situation is rather special, others did not want to get married one of the people had the disease and more miserable, I really did not feel that. From my surgery that day on, when I was small the number of students take the initiative to bear on the work of my accompanying them during the day and evening shifts, I envy my patients who, because their families can not have so many of my friends. In fact, I was looking for a care workers, friends worried, not just his or her, they also let their family members to me Aotang, up all kinds of tonic. I found that usually are too busy to meet with friends Gubu Shang Zhe Kuaier have the skills, I told them jokingly, if not disease, where I love to so many ah. I like this straight to straight to, would not say that too many thanks, it is often touched by a cry. I do not love is a thing to the people, then often pondering: What is a friend, your friend is the most helpless when you let down the people at ease, is to help you instead of Qiu Huibao people. To them, I have to make it alive. Friends know that I love, each time after chemotherapy, after a period of reaction, they go out with me, as long as one out, as long as they are all together, I will not feel that they are patients. The first was the most fun to Shidu, we fight Shuizhang the same gang of people on board, which in the past, which is my opponent, but now I do not carry arms, with fixed Chuanjiang, unable to fight with them, I think a good, and so again the next time, bring water Yaozi, poured directly to them, it is estimated that no problem. Let's say I told them like this any more than 40 years of age, is like a group of children. They said that I thank you for providing this opportunity, my illness so that they understand that life is the most cherished things, health is first, people can not live in the pressure, the relaxation time must relax . There is also a move from patients, may be the same fate so that everyone's heart stickers very near, the same as their loved ones. Understand or do not know the patients you will find it very cordial, if the chemotherapy is done to catch up with whom no one around, we will take the initiative to take care of you, friends, colleagues, sent to visit very often the things we enjoy together, we live a no wards No child elderly woman, I have given her a lot of nutrition, said she moved to live better at home than in hospitals. You will find that all the people so enthusiastic, so good, an old saying in a risky, the world everywhere have the truth. That urban indifference, to ward spent, it is estimated that will change. (Li Ke Yi also contributed to this article, expressed thanks for this)
Ye Danyang story
Ye Danyang, in April 2002 of breast cancer, with a quarter of the breast. And all the patients with breast cancer, in Curan, experienced a life and death, has experienced pain, experienced the fate of a woman Amy challenges. And different from the other patients, as a documentary director, she used the camera records their own this experience, were named to the film "the story of the breast."
Danyang of the interview, she had read some of the things on the Internet, filled with the truth in between the lines. Beijing TV in the coffee room, reporters saw the Zizirunrun of Danyang, Guangxianjiangli, how she also can not think of the immediate and "cancer" What is the relationship.
The lens at its own
"2001's October Breast a problem, Zuoru lateral Guchu suddenly a big lump, doctors saw, that no event is the proliferation of very busy, eventful home, ignoring their own." This is the condition of Danyang in the first of their memory. She do not know, no one told her this may lead to cancerous lump. And so six months later to the hospital for an examination, the doctor told she must immediately surgery. The future of the Danyang do a deep self-examination: If it is not their own ignorance, the pain should be avoided.
China today: Why should we shoot, "the story of the breast"
Ye Danyang: My this is an unusual disease caused by the proliferation of breast, because of ignorance, even conservative, male doctors feel sorry for the breast lumps, and do not like to look surgery, the end result in cancer. I do a media people are not aware of the harm its women, not to mention other people.
Cancer is not intimidated by me, and I fear the loss of the breast is not the United States. A woman without a breast, you may not be the men do not love you, but you will not love myself. So you will have lost self-esteem and self-confidence, will lose enthusiasm for life. Rentongcixin, so I think for my homosexual friends do one thing and tell more people that breast cancer is avoidable. I think the media people to do is to their feelings, their own by telling others what to see. As a director, of course first of all think of using the documentary form. This idea is in operation the day after.
China today: how to make their own mind
Ye Danyang: sick, I have to find a lot of patients, and people have been communication, and later I discovered that no one is willing to be shot. Haorong Yi selected a 25-year-old girl, she had just come back abroad, the hospital when the cancer has spread. I was looking on a young woman, is needed to increase the impact would be more aroused the concern of all: This is not just older people will have the disease. I have made a number of lenses, but her family firmly opposed, how are not linked, only to give up. Later, I think, if I were her, I do not shoot, you have already had cancer, already need to be adjusted to deal with the mentality of the disease, this time a camera in front of you to Huang Huang-to, to you the pain made public, in the How much to the psychological capacity to bear.
To tell the truth, I understand them too, is normal, because we are suffering from breast diseases, the disease is a woman, who would not willing to show their suffering to others. Say nothing of their own, it is estimated that his family and friends are reluctant to do this. For example, I, in fact, my husband really did not want to let me do this, including my colleagues. At that time, I think, If you can not find a suitable subject, then I am the only themselves.
China today: the first shot in what is the time
Ye Danyang: in 14 days after surgery rewirable the time. I think that other people can not get such a lens, let my colleagues to shoot. Later, my colleagues in a television interview talking about her feelings: "In fact, I do not know how to leaf Danyang their own, I did not want to let her face as a state of others."
Later this lens does not appear in the film, this is normal. China is the majority of the women did not have the courage, including me. I Buzai Yi my body how important, but the community of public opinion is very important, I am just an ordinary person, I will be offset by Pata I do the intention of this matter. In fact, I was a very conservative person, with male colleagues suffer in the near point that not all natural. I am such a person, let me make it quite impossible step. I do this thing itself is done to prevent breast cancer in the publicity, if not the camera that I can achieve the same purpose, why did I use it.
We may think that I am at the lens of their own at this particular time is the location is wrong, perhaps the next day there is a genuine need, I also now want a family, I would use this camera, but can not. I feel that I do not have a particular kind of dedicated people. Breast cancer the disease brought the disease itself is not only the pain, there is a women's frustration, hopelessness, self-abased, many of the details is actually very cruel.
Of course, other scenes we have seen, such as shaved first class, I do not Tiliaoguangtou the beautiful, not beautiful it is not pretty, no.
And the eight-year-old son about life and death
Ye Danyang said the ideal of one of his childhood was "a good mother", the son of her achievements. When the doctor told her suffering from breast cancer, may only live 10 years, of Danyang in mind to do the arithmetic of that: eight-year-old son, plus 10, 18-year-old, 18-year-old son of the University of graduating from high school examination, she Click on the mind at ease.
China today: sick after the most painful thing is what
Ye Danyang: how to get his son in one day suddenly lost her mother when to frankly face. Childhood I have deeply felt the loss of a father's pain and no young father of inferiority, I do not want to let my son make the same mistakes again.
But how can we let an eight-year-old child in the death of awareness and understanding without being hurt » No one can teach me, can only rely on their own.
I think We both countries lack death education, in fact, this is a very important lesson. I note that the people around me, even live to 80 years old, referred to as "death", is still fear. After the illness I would like to, if one day, I have matured to the strength to do such things, I wanted to open a topic on the life of the columns. I think that a person's maturity, the maturity of a society, including the contents inside it should have the right to face death. If everyone can correctly face death, his life would be no obstacle. But no one in this matter, we all avoided, because this matter has too heavy.
In fact, I do not know the young son of talk about the consequences of what is life and death, although I have the goodwill of his mind. Sometimes I think that in itself a risky thing to do. Until one day in my "readers" read an article truly affirmed by their own. Article I can recommend is the husband, whose name is "in your life every day." The author is on the last century occurred in the 1970s the story of a breast cancer patient, the patient is the author's wife Qiong.
King after the encounter with cancer in my common problems, so that is how the children accept her mother's death. A cancer when her daughter was 10 years old, she pulled her daughter walk in the forest, told her daughter, one of the flowers wither, it will certainly return to a new place - it is really a moving and very people the U.S. Very good analogy, but the 10-year-old daughter do not know how to listen to her mother's words, when the King in less than a year's time to leave this world when the youngest daughter still do not understand what has happened in the end, she was angry adults did not tell her the truth So that she has not psychologically prepared. This has become all the regret and author of the most regrettable thing.
China today: to understand the stresses son?
Ye Danyang: done surgery the next day, the son of the pale Xiaolian come in, not out on my bed Hang on, touched my forehead, she said her mother you it » I told him that his son, if one day my mother died, you must not upset when his mother died can be a comfortable. Then her mother to death uncomfortable, you do not have the sad. Enliaoyisheng son, a eight-year-old child, he can not understand death » I say this not too cruel » I do not know.
Later, I had to do one thing, in fact Tingnan, I do not want to let him think that death is a very terrible things. For example, a person watching television, occasionally see a man had been Taizou the lens, I will be with their father and son said that if I die when you are 10 million Biehuang Taizou me, let me with you To be a while. I can not speak with you, but I can hear you speak, you have to me that while many said it. Son, his mother said I do not know a time that should tell you what, I said that you gave me to sing. What song to sing ah » All you have to sing the mother Aiting. Said his son would visit, saying this time the 10-year-old son has been very easy. I clearly see the death of darkness in this Yishun disappear, it becomes poetry, warmth, the continuation of the Health and sublimation of the glorious……
Sometimes I really great anxiety
Interview of the Danyang, as usual not prepared to outline an interview. Is to listen to her tell, would like to know her feelings. After seeing the disease because of the Danyang, mostly through the media choices, "sublimation", in fact true of the Danyang more lovable.
China today: I have taken note of your three plans: to build a public site in patients with breast cancer, breast cancer patients to write an oral record of the book, a film reflects the state of breast cancer patients survive 10-documentary. We will now proceed in what »
Ye Danyang: Paipian Zi from the disease, I find myself start to do a work: the prevention of breast cancer advocacy. I have targeted the media to "speak for breast cancer patients." I believed this person a little life, I think Zuozhe Shi is the fate of the arrangement: God to see the sufferings of breast cancer because too many people, this is the pain could have been avoided, in the election of a person tell you, just let Ye Danyang in this disease, she experienced all the pain, then she will turn this message to the people.
To the health of women know how to cherish their own breasts, loss of a breast of a woman retrieve a woman's self-confidence. I do this is the goal of the matter. I not only to reflect the breast cancer patients how to overcome the disease, but would like to record a person, a life and death and, of a dying person to survive, and to reflect on a living person, how better to be alive.
I prepared a book next year, "March 8" Women's Day before publication, has signed an agreement with the publisher. The other two still in the state of disorder. In particular, documentaries, 50 million in funding support, also failed to implement down.
To tell the truth, these things really so hard to do, time, energy, funding, including some people you do things the suspected motive…… sometimes I really great anxiety. So this matter is purely my personal conduct, I have my own job, not to say this is a favor I am of the work, from the perspective of their families, I can not abandon it, and now doing TV Almost all belong to the physical state of overdraft, my work is the completion of our work only after I could do it, so the patients can only be interviewed in the evening or weekend. Besides, I was a recurrence of a vulnerable patients. Some time ago I feel particularly bad, to review, the white blood cell count dropped to 310 and the (normal should be between 4000-9000). My friends advised me: Ye Danyang, You Zhaodian your child, if you have a bad day, you are sorry your son……
China today: It is not very regretted their choice »
Ye Danyang: sometimes contradictory. Very often think, even if not, let them fend for themselves as the idea, I immediately do not ask me what it was. I dare not say how strong sense of social responsibility, but I Fang Buxia this matter, it will always in his heart, like孕育their own children, you can not not allow him to it, so that the particular difficulty.
There are other factors difficult, because the media continually reported that someone said to me: you are not of the Danyang show, not a disease you have to, also has its own Nongcheng celebrities. These are all I need to face, and sometimes really want to give up, but I think the significance of this matter, that must do so, I must convince myself, I can convince myself, because I have experienced is a life and death, fame and fortune I really do not in terms of importance, but it is undeniable that, to cross it, we need power. This in the past, I can not do, now held, it may also be ill after a change it.
China today: contact those at risk of losing their life with you as sick people, you will have what kind of impact »
Ye Danyang: Every time I interviewed End can not pull out from that scenario, because they face a very helpless, you can not help her, so when the time will be particularly sad. The fragility of life, the life of insignificance, than you imagine but also strong, so you really helpless. Sometimes after an interview that the blocking of the chest, a few days relief but also to Jiner. To do this matter of fact, quite boil.
I contacted a number of patients with breast cancer, there have to leave this world, and I certainly would want to, so I will also » Therefore, this matter I am not doing a long time, I think I used to do 35 hours. I would not put it as a life-long career, but I recently was an important goal and plans.
China today: What makes you stick down »
Ye Danyang: One thing I am determined to do so: my son classmate's mother called me and said she saw one of my colleagues in the film, the next day to do the inspection, the results of the investigation is suffering from breast cancer by , Is being treated. I listened to this matter, I think, this person speaking, may be found again in the evening will be her fate. Because I saw the publicity, at least it cured increased the probability that my work is successful, some people will benefit from this, that this matter must still do. Not an exaggeration to say that I think China is now no person than I am doing this matter more convenient, because we all know that I am doing this matter, many people can not give too much concrete help, but you will at least help facilitate momentum , In the spirit of support, so this is why I insist on.
I do not know that they can truly achieve the last of my three wishes, anyway I can do to what extent to what extent do. Can not do when Xieyi Xie, I then resumed done.
China today: Do you believe that the prevention of breast cancer is not just women's issues »
Ye Danyang: I have said on many people doing so, we must be aware of the importance of the prevention of breast cancer, women need to know not only that men should also know that every 100 breast cancer will have a male, and every man will and A woman, this man may not have daughters, but there may be a wife, the wife may not, but certainly has the mother, if you have to love them, you're obliged to remind them, in the annual one time, we must To go to the hospital to do a breast examination of the disease, once found on the treatment immediately, otherwise it will turn into cancer. This is very easy to do one thing, other than a gift, reminded the more meaningful. Therefore, I feel that this matter is not only women's issues, but also men of things, this society is constituted by women and men, so it can speak of social matters.
I think the doctors are medical treatment, medical treatment outside of these people is to complete the work. Appeal to the whole society to attach importance to this matter, it is the responsibility of the media, these people should do this work
Danyang of the interview, she had read some of the things on the Internet, filled with the truth in between the lines. Beijing TV in the coffee room, reporters saw the Zizirunrun of Danyang, Guangxianjiangli, how she also can not think of the immediate and "cancer" What is the relationship.
The lens at its own
"2001's October Breast a problem, Zuoru lateral Guchu suddenly a big lump, doctors saw, that no event is the proliferation of very busy, eventful home, ignoring their own." This is the condition of Danyang in the first of their memory. She do not know, no one told her this may lead to cancerous lump. And so six months later to the hospital for an examination, the doctor told she must immediately surgery. The future of the Danyang do a deep self-examination: If it is not their own ignorance, the pain should be avoided.
China today: Why should we shoot, "the story of the breast"
Ye Danyang: My this is an unusual disease caused by the proliferation of breast, because of ignorance, even conservative, male doctors feel sorry for the breast lumps, and do not like to look surgery, the end result in cancer. I do a media people are not aware of the harm its women, not to mention other people.
Cancer is not intimidated by me, and I fear the loss of the breast is not the United States. A woman without a breast, you may not be the men do not love you, but you will not love myself. So you will have lost self-esteem and self-confidence, will lose enthusiasm for life. Rentongcixin, so I think for my homosexual friends do one thing and tell more people that breast cancer is avoidable. I think the media people to do is to their feelings, their own by telling others what to see. As a director, of course first of all think of using the documentary form. This idea is in operation the day after.
China today: how to make their own mind
Ye Danyang: sick, I have to find a lot of patients, and people have been communication, and later I discovered that no one is willing to be shot. Haorong Yi selected a 25-year-old girl, she had just come back abroad, the hospital when the cancer has spread. I was looking on a young woman, is needed to increase the impact would be more aroused the concern of all: This is not just older people will have the disease. I have made a number of lenses, but her family firmly opposed, how are not linked, only to give up. Later, I think, if I were her, I do not shoot, you have already had cancer, already need to be adjusted to deal with the mentality of the disease, this time a camera in front of you to Huang Huang-to, to you the pain made public, in the How much to the psychological capacity to bear.
To tell the truth, I understand them too, is normal, because we are suffering from breast diseases, the disease is a woman, who would not willing to show their suffering to others. Say nothing of their own, it is estimated that his family and friends are reluctant to do this. For example, I, in fact, my husband really did not want to let me do this, including my colleagues. At that time, I think, If you can not find a suitable subject, then I am the only themselves.
China today: the first shot in what is the time
Ye Danyang: in 14 days after surgery rewirable the time. I think that other people can not get such a lens, let my colleagues to shoot. Later, my colleagues in a television interview talking about her feelings: "In fact, I do not know how to leaf Danyang their own, I did not want to let her face as a state of others."
Later this lens does not appear in the film, this is normal. China is the majority of the women did not have the courage, including me. I Buzai Yi my body how important, but the community of public opinion is very important, I am just an ordinary person, I will be offset by Pata I do the intention of this matter. In fact, I was a very conservative person, with male colleagues suffer in the near point that not all natural. I am such a person, let me make it quite impossible step. I do this thing itself is done to prevent breast cancer in the publicity, if not the camera that I can achieve the same purpose, why did I use it.
We may think that I am at the lens of their own at this particular time is the location is wrong, perhaps the next day there is a genuine need, I also now want a family, I would use this camera, but can not. I feel that I do not have a particular kind of dedicated people. Breast cancer the disease brought the disease itself is not only the pain, there is a women's frustration, hopelessness, self-abased, many of the details is actually very cruel.
Of course, other scenes we have seen, such as shaved first class, I do not Tiliaoguangtou the beautiful, not beautiful it is not pretty, no.
And the eight-year-old son about life and death
Ye Danyang said the ideal of one of his childhood was "a good mother", the son of her achievements. When the doctor told her suffering from breast cancer, may only live 10 years, of Danyang in mind to do the arithmetic of that: eight-year-old son, plus 10, 18-year-old, 18-year-old son of the University of graduating from high school examination, she Click on the mind at ease.
China today: sick after the most painful thing is what
Ye Danyang: how to get his son in one day suddenly lost her mother when to frankly face. Childhood I have deeply felt the loss of a father's pain and no young father of inferiority, I do not want to let my son make the same mistakes again.
But how can we let an eight-year-old child in the death of awareness and understanding without being hurt » No one can teach me, can only rely on their own.
I think We both countries lack death education, in fact, this is a very important lesson. I note that the people around me, even live to 80 years old, referred to as "death", is still fear. After the illness I would like to, if one day, I have matured to the strength to do such things, I wanted to open a topic on the life of the columns. I think that a person's maturity, the maturity of a society, including the contents inside it should have the right to face death. If everyone can correctly face death, his life would be no obstacle. But no one in this matter, we all avoided, because this matter has too heavy.
In fact, I do not know the young son of talk about the consequences of what is life and death, although I have the goodwill of his mind. Sometimes I think that in itself a risky thing to do. Until one day in my "readers" read an article truly affirmed by their own. Article I can recommend is the husband, whose name is "in your life every day." The author is on the last century occurred in the 1970s the story of a breast cancer patient, the patient is the author's wife Qiong.
King after the encounter with cancer in my common problems, so that is how the children accept her mother's death. A cancer when her daughter was 10 years old, she pulled her daughter walk in the forest, told her daughter, one of the flowers wither, it will certainly return to a new place - it is really a moving and very people the U.S. Very good analogy, but the 10-year-old daughter do not know how to listen to her mother's words, when the King in less than a year's time to leave this world when the youngest daughter still do not understand what has happened in the end, she was angry adults did not tell her the truth So that she has not psychologically prepared. This has become all the regret and author of the most regrettable thing.
China today: to understand the stresses son?
Ye Danyang: done surgery the next day, the son of the pale Xiaolian come in, not out on my bed Hang on, touched my forehead, she said her mother you it » I told him that his son, if one day my mother died, you must not upset when his mother died can be a comfortable. Then her mother to death uncomfortable, you do not have the sad. Enliaoyisheng son, a eight-year-old child, he can not understand death » I say this not too cruel » I do not know.
Later, I had to do one thing, in fact Tingnan, I do not want to let him think that death is a very terrible things. For example, a person watching television, occasionally see a man had been Taizou the lens, I will be with their father and son said that if I die when you are 10 million Biehuang Taizou me, let me with you To be a while. I can not speak with you, but I can hear you speak, you have to me that while many said it. Son, his mother said I do not know a time that should tell you what, I said that you gave me to sing. What song to sing ah » All you have to sing the mother Aiting. Said his son would visit, saying this time the 10-year-old son has been very easy. I clearly see the death of darkness in this Yishun disappear, it becomes poetry, warmth, the continuation of the Health and sublimation of the glorious……
Sometimes I really great anxiety
Interview of the Danyang, as usual not prepared to outline an interview. Is to listen to her tell, would like to know her feelings. After seeing the disease because of the Danyang, mostly through the media choices, "sublimation", in fact true of the Danyang more lovable.
China today: I have taken note of your three plans: to build a public site in patients with breast cancer, breast cancer patients to write an oral record of the book, a film reflects the state of breast cancer patients survive 10-documentary. We will now proceed in what »
Ye Danyang: Paipian Zi from the disease, I find myself start to do a work: the prevention of breast cancer advocacy. I have targeted the media to "speak for breast cancer patients." I believed this person a little life, I think Zuozhe Shi is the fate of the arrangement: God to see the sufferings of breast cancer because too many people, this is the pain could have been avoided, in the election of a person tell you, just let Ye Danyang in this disease, she experienced all the pain, then she will turn this message to the people.
To the health of women know how to cherish their own breasts, loss of a breast of a woman retrieve a woman's self-confidence. I do this is the goal of the matter. I not only to reflect the breast cancer patients how to overcome the disease, but would like to record a person, a life and death and, of a dying person to survive, and to reflect on a living person, how better to be alive.
I prepared a book next year, "March 8" Women's Day before publication, has signed an agreement with the publisher. The other two still in the state of disorder. In particular, documentaries, 50 million in funding support, also failed to implement down.
To tell the truth, these things really so hard to do, time, energy, funding, including some people you do things the suspected motive…… sometimes I really great anxiety. So this matter is purely my personal conduct, I have my own job, not to say this is a favor I am of the work, from the perspective of their families, I can not abandon it, and now doing TV Almost all belong to the physical state of overdraft, my work is the completion of our work only after I could do it, so the patients can only be interviewed in the evening or weekend. Besides, I was a recurrence of a vulnerable patients. Some time ago I feel particularly bad, to review, the white blood cell count dropped to 310 and the (normal should be between 4000-9000). My friends advised me: Ye Danyang, You Zhaodian your child, if you have a bad day, you are sorry your son……
China today: It is not very regretted their choice »
Ye Danyang: sometimes contradictory. Very often think, even if not, let them fend for themselves as the idea, I immediately do not ask me what it was. I dare not say how strong sense of social responsibility, but I Fang Buxia this matter, it will always in his heart, like孕育their own children, you can not not allow him to it, so that the particular difficulty.
There are other factors difficult, because the media continually reported that someone said to me: you are not of the Danyang show, not a disease you have to, also has its own Nongcheng celebrities. These are all I need to face, and sometimes really want to give up, but I think the significance of this matter, that must do so, I must convince myself, I can convince myself, because I have experienced is a life and death, fame and fortune I really do not in terms of importance, but it is undeniable that, to cross it, we need power. This in the past, I can not do, now held, it may also be ill after a change it.
China today: contact those at risk of losing their life with you as sick people, you will have what kind of impact »
Ye Danyang: Every time I interviewed End can not pull out from that scenario, because they face a very helpless, you can not help her, so when the time will be particularly sad. The fragility of life, the life of insignificance, than you imagine but also strong, so you really helpless. Sometimes after an interview that the blocking of the chest, a few days relief but also to Jiner. To do this matter of fact, quite boil.
I contacted a number of patients with breast cancer, there have to leave this world, and I certainly would want to, so I will also » Therefore, this matter I am not doing a long time, I think I used to do 35 hours. I would not put it as a life-long career, but I recently was an important goal and plans.
China today: What makes you stick down »
Ye Danyang: One thing I am determined to do so: my son classmate's mother called me and said she saw one of my colleagues in the film, the next day to do the inspection, the results of the investigation is suffering from breast cancer by , Is being treated. I listened to this matter, I think, this person speaking, may be found again in the evening will be her fate. Because I saw the publicity, at least it cured increased the probability that my work is successful, some people will benefit from this, that this matter must still do. Not an exaggeration to say that I think China is now no person than I am doing this matter more convenient, because we all know that I am doing this matter, many people can not give too much concrete help, but you will at least help facilitate momentum , In the spirit of support, so this is why I insist on.
I do not know that they can truly achieve the last of my three wishes, anyway I can do to what extent to what extent do. Can not do when Xieyi Xie, I then resumed done.
China today: Do you believe that the prevention of breast cancer is not just women's issues »
Ye Danyang: I have said on many people doing so, we must be aware of the importance of the prevention of breast cancer, women need to know not only that men should also know that every 100 breast cancer will have a male, and every man will and A woman, this man may not have daughters, but there may be a wife, the wife may not, but certainly has the mother, if you have to love them, you're obliged to remind them, in the annual one time, we must To go to the hospital to do a breast examination of the disease, once found on the treatment immediately, otherwise it will turn into cancer. This is very easy to do one thing, other than a gift, reminded the more meaningful. Therefore, I feel that this matter is not only women's issues, but also men of things, this society is constituted by women and men, so it can speak of social matters.
I think the doctors are medical treatment, medical treatment outside of these people is to complete the work. Appeal to the whole society to attach importance to this matter, it is the responsibility of the media, these people should do this work
Jia Cuixia diplomats story
46-year-old Gu Cuixia a diplomat's daughter, but also a diplomat's wife, Chinese and foreign cultural exchanges in her own work. In 2001 with her husband in France, which were diagnosed as suffering from breast cancer.
"I do not understand French, but I did understand that the French doctor has said that proportion, I have studied medicine, my intuition tells me he is a cancer." From the day three years ago, Jia Cuixia of life has changed , Began a long hospitalization. Beijing Tumor Hospital in the ward, was Qiequ a breast Jia Cuixia she says with a laugh the most Langbei like to let me see, and asked me wear the black pearl production is not Tahiti, she has a bunch of very beautiful Black pearl necklace, is the husband of a business trip to that island, to buy her.
"The doctor said I was a very good patient"
Serving a two analgesics, Jia Cuixia Gen Woliao since the beginning of her illness, calm and optimistic like you forget she is the protagonist of this disease.
China today: Members of your evaluation is "strong" is not because the doctor tell you that this condition will help the recovery »
Jia Cuixia: I am optimistic about this group of people born, I just been diagnosed with cancer, the current Chinese ambassador to France Zhao Jinjun on behalf of the embassy to come to visit me at home, he is very solemn and wearing a suit and looked solemn, very seriously and I talk about: Do not have too much pressure to have the courage to overcome his illness…… At that time, I was Doule, persuaded him to say: OK, this is not what amazing things.
May be a small cultivate the habit, and I may also be relevant as a soldier, in the face of one thing I can think of the past, no big deal; I like to seize the initiative themselves, that one thing, I am sure to do a good job . The same disease, in accordance with the principle of doing things my life, is sick, I am also an excellent patient, a doctor with good will, understanding the disease and take the initiative to adjust their own.
China today: former Chinese Ambassador Wu Jianmin said the law you are "a great woman."
Jia Cuixia: as an outstanding diplomat, Ambassador Wu, the feelings of people around them, and his sensitivity to international relations is the same. He is very concerned about the relationship between colleagues, concerned about everyone in the embassy different location and the role played by each of his personal support for the work of the embassy have seen very heavy. I confirmed the disease after treatment, the most in need of family care, when France went to Shanghai 2010 World Expo bid to bid to become the primary work of the embassy at the time, as the Embassy Counselor and Director of the Office of the husband is responsible for a large number of hospitality and logistics Coordination. I do not have the disease because they distracted him, he fully into the work. As a diplomat's daughter and his wife, I think this is very normal, because diplomacy is no small matter, the country's interests above all else, let alone I am a cause of special value, no matter how much personal things can Fang Dexia, But work can not be put aside. Shenbo success of that moment, her husband first called me, he moved to tears, I thank for his support. I Miss Ambassador to the rise of such acts to a small to large to the embassy of the country's diplomatic cause a high degree of support, he thought I was the spirit, attitude to life has played the role of wife of a diplomat.
China today: the first place may not have the breast removed? »
Jia Cuixia: No, found the lymphatic cancer cells have. This means that the cancer cells anywhere in the body may have. In between the beautiful and life, to choose life, not life-how can they talk about beauty. But a woman speaking the truth in this difficult time for customs clearance, I was very mention of Amy. But it also has relations with age, if placed on 10 years ago, I might have another kind of choice, some may age more "pragmatic", life is the first.
China today: Your condition is very special, chemotherapy for nearly three years »
Jia Cuixia: breast cancer in cancer is a relatively light, the doctor said I in patients with breast cancer, is a rare, drug sensitivity poor, a drug sometimes just a few days work, with the Youmei, Basically used conventional medicine, and the optional drug has become increasingly less.
Doctors say, as I can with the treatment of such patients is not easy, is generally a period of chemotherapy should be stopped to rest for a period of time then again, but I can not stop, stop immediately increase the symptoms. Therefore always be in systemic treatment, and local radiotherapy are speaking to me a kind of wishful thinking.
Doctors often fear to try one after the treatment, each will tell me: you must be mentally prepared, we can only be further explored in the past, I do not know have any effect. I have become accustomed to, jokingly told the doctor: If the day you told me I have a certain effect on the drug, I would have to be adjusted to allow themselves to take psychology, this is true? » I Haigen the doctor said, I actively cooperate with and give you a chance to create miracles, I hope you also a pleasant surprise. They said this miracle too difficult, and I said okay, I have to enjoy the best medical conditions.
I am well aware of the seriousness of their illness and treatment are different from the general difficulty, but I still believe that the special medical, scientific development because it is now too fast, perhaps out of a drug, a disease to disappear completely, not the emergence of penicillin Is an example of this » Maybe I can go there one day, and so on.
I have been very fortunate, like what we can do, I always joke that my life may be too smooth, what a good thing God will not let me have a total, so use this disease to punish me, but this ordeal I have too much of it, not yet 2001, 2002, must so long.
"It is no less than illness raised a lot of things"
"I was not pasta, it is a lot of things Fangbu Xia." Jiacui Xia said she liked to think things through, would like to make clear, she said that they did a cool analysis: no worry about the children, her husband has no regrets, except for parents She Fang Buxia heart. Despite the very rational analysis, several times choked with Jia Cuixia not Jiangxia Qu, especially on the children, "rest assured" the reason, she Fanlaifuqu speaking many times. This is where the heart Fang Dexia, she obviously is to convince themselves and in their own ways to advance the future may not be the love child.
China today: It is not thought death »
Jia Cuixia: for the people how the disease may not think of death » A person to this point in time is often shown on the desire of Health, to me speaking, not pasta, it is a lot of things Fangbu Xia.
China today: as mothers, should be the most difficult to lay down their child.
Jia Cuixia: life in the countdown to enter the time, many mothers are the most Fang Buxia children. The son, I have nothing to worry about, no regret, from his living environment, education opportunities and I told him I think the requirements are good, I do not give him lot of pressure to have his own ideas , Has the capacity to differentiate right from wrong. In a certain sense also protect him from the "examination-oriented education" pressure, such as I have with others than children not only let him than with their own, as long as some progress today than yesterday on the line, I do not want his full-grade class row The first few, not because of a decimal point went wrong punish him, as long as he has to figure out the last line on the. Including the now go abroad to school, is wanted him to feel different from a domestic living environment, learning atmosphere and cultivate a learning capacity, rather than a mere accumulation of knowledge. Learning is a lifelong thing, the updating of knowledge so quickly, the key is to learn how to learn. As long as the establishment of a sense of learning, mastered the method of learning, must have the knowledge to guide the future life and work of awareness, learning of a person speaking is not difficult.
I was satisfied with the children, is also reassuring. Because he has a 20-year-old, is the man. I will train from his sense of independence, the boys I think the most important thing is independence, this independence is not only independent daily, including acts of an independent personality. Family and friends feel that he compared the same age children mature, this is my heart for Fang Dexia. Of course, as a mother, no matter how much their children are also children, not to mention he was 20 years old, has not yet entered the community, did not get married……
The children leave come back with me, we more exchanges De Ting, the son of aesthetic choices, the judgement of good and evil, and the point of view, dealing with the problem, let me appreciate and be assured. If one day I have what I will be assured of his son, inner relatively pleased that the children have a more mature, when the mother can not be with him all his life. I told my son to his hope for the future into the community, the study can not give it up, cause some success, full of love. The parents to guide and the opportunity we gave too, so there is no Fangxinbuxia it.
I often speak with the children, sick to my speaking is a helpless, as is the case, you told my mother to understand this process, the enjoyment of the process, understanding this process gives you a positive significance. If carefully to appreciate, and you will have a lot harvest will be rich than others, than others can take the future into the community more independence than others, more aware of the importance of the home, the family's important.
I think the man so that they experienced much experience there will be a sense of responsibility. I chat with my son said, he should cherish this process: this time a few months to accompany her mother in the side, if one day I have nothing wrong, you will be very comforting, because you do its Filial Piety, you will not Remorse and regret. And I was also very comforting, because I get sick child more love. I think this process depends on the children how to understand, how to understand, of course, the children alone will not do, depends on how parents to guide and lead a good, in terms of children is a wealth. He may be the future of life, life will be more concerned about the feelings will be more cherished.
China today: once because of ill feeling great pressure »
Jia Cuixia: After my illness is the most Fang Buxia my own parents. Parents age, this is the time to be unable to sons and daughters, sons and daughters should be done to give them a happy old age, if I can not do, this is a big regret. From this point of speaking, in this disease, my special emphasis on the psychological burden, or even unworthy of their parents……. In particular to Fengnianguojie the time, I should be at home and I can not go home when I will think of ways for parents not to feel desolate, with my approach is to look easy, I let them feel good.
Do you know the parents of sons and daughters of emotion, it is most conditions. I get sick, the thinking is taking advantage of their own dynamic, so that they go to Paris last Peipei their parents not to say anything, I told them I was sick, want to do treatment, my mother within a week on the run all the formalities Rushed to Paris, and this is the mother!
China today: Before I met your President, you talk about the disease deplores
Jia Cuixia: As a husband and wife for more than 20 years, I think we should go now is worth the treasure, a couple, a family can achieve the desired state also requires a process: From the newly married adjustments, and change each other, adjust their own, change The other, received deep-seated mutual recognition, life philosophy, Weirenchushi, the social phenomenon of the judgement, we can reach a consensus and understanding, to communicate, this is a very easy thing, I feel that we have to This realm, you can say run-in in place now, feeling very good in all aspects, can be given on the cause of his support, I think done quite well, so it has no regrets. It has been said I was "helping Cardiff fate", I jokingly told her husband: I help you in this life many, including the illness after another are used in a way to support and help you. However, such support is two-way, especially after the sick, I understand it, "Xiangruyimo" meaning. Over the past three years, I have to bear the physical pain, and he is faced by the spirit of life, work and other aspects of the enormous pressure, but in front of me, he has always been demonstrated by the optimistic belief, this is also a good support I A huge momentum alive.
"Take care of themselves is no longer his kind words addressed"
Jia Cuixia disease that brought her pain, but also gave her time to think about. She said that in their own lives to extract the meaning of health, she often told friends: Institute cherish their own bodies, or too late to regret it. Jiacui Xia said that compared with previous years is now more concerned about health, social progress This is a great performance. She said sometimes feel lucky: If the first five years of such concern and healthy environment, I may not have the disease - of course this can only be based on the assumption that.
China today: as career women, nostalgia is not quite work »
Jia Cuixia: There were several times, I feel better, we can immediately to work, but the doctors always told me: You have to cure. Then I found that the health of a person speaking more important. Also feel that, my sense is not so in place. I say that they are on the brilliant sunshine to the point, sometimes not out on the brilliant sunshine on the. How I say I work on the terms of a temptation. Former colleague called me, a little better, to the company, I will promise a few days should be able, you should understand the appeal of my work, people can experience the joy of self-realization. However, after repeated several times, I found that to be determined no longer to "additive", because it is a
I think that they like a ball, with little effort can make bombs and how high, the young man, regardless of work much more tired, take a break soon be restored to original condition, so desperately to work. Many people on its own understanding is: I still have the potential to be good to play, there are many opportunities to strive to, or lost. In fact, they are simply not aware of advances in health. In a sense, many of the disease is Zizhao.
China today: you are the tell a friend to drink plenty of water »
Jia Cuixia: I now urge the attention of friends body, the past is no longer used impetuous, very Shunzui the cliches, I will be specific to the "you must drink plenty of water, drink plenty of water to detoxification," This drink is the concept of pain I experienced It derives from it: I was not thirsty, fixed cups, it is a very bad habit.
However, the physical capital, the Institute cherish their own bodies, or too late to regret it. If there is a good body, how many things can do! Therefore, we must learn You Zhuodian children, do the things done today, if possible, tomorrow came with his family to travel together, to relax. Now fast-paced life, work and life of the people are great pressure, particularly career women, it's even in the Institute of pressure in the release of their own state, not the master plan, "I will……", his concern about the health of millions let alone the future , From now on is just the beginning.
In addition to life with some experience may be moved by the strength of others. The patients like me, have personal experience of people, to appeal to the people: the concern about under the prerequisite of life, have many other things. No matter how great the cause, the whole body is not good words. But I guess my friends in the wards is a feeling when, out of the hospital on Shenbuyouji.
China today: There is a saying, too delicate feelings of the women-in breast diseases
Jia Cuixia: I wonder if this has the support of medical theories, but I think that makes sense. Now obviously a phenomenon is that the life of habit, determine its risk of a disease.
I kind of character is relatively open, work Pola, but also in terms of emotion is too delicate, small compared Chongqing. You see this person I open the surface, things take a lot of heart.
China today: the sunny side of show to others, and left to their own pain to digest, too many of their commitment to things.
Jia Cuixia: right, just like you sum up this way. I appreciate the comparison a story: two living in the same ward patients, a person's wall beds, another person close to the windows of the beds, because they can not move all day, and around the windows of the wall of the patients gave patients Stresses the window of the scenery: the flowers outside the house, the clothes people wear more beautiful, sunny, light rain is more poetic in his…… on, the scenery always outside the United States. Later, while living in the windows of that person died, the patient asked for the wall near the windows to the bed, a day to themselves to see the scenery outside, he saw the results, the window there are only a wall.
I think that, including myself, like many Chinese women living in the window is the one that's always a lot of things to filter, the US-things appear to others.
China today: Is there any thought about: I do not want to, and I tired.
Jia Cuixia: Yes, but the scoring target, and occasionally in her husband there, "indulgence" to their emotions, and sometimes a special wish to crying, but the parents, children, is not possible
"I do not understand French, but I did understand that the French doctor has said that proportion, I have studied medicine, my intuition tells me he is a cancer." From the day three years ago, Jia Cuixia of life has changed , Began a long hospitalization. Beijing Tumor Hospital in the ward, was Qiequ a breast Jia Cuixia she says with a laugh the most Langbei like to let me see, and asked me wear the black pearl production is not Tahiti, she has a bunch of very beautiful Black pearl necklace, is the husband of a business trip to that island, to buy her.
"The doctor said I was a very good patient"
Serving a two analgesics, Jia Cuixia Gen Woliao since the beginning of her illness, calm and optimistic like you forget she is the protagonist of this disease.
China today: Members of your evaluation is "strong" is not because the doctor tell you that this condition will help the recovery »
Jia Cuixia: I am optimistic about this group of people born, I just been diagnosed with cancer, the current Chinese ambassador to France Zhao Jinjun on behalf of the embassy to come to visit me at home, he is very solemn and wearing a suit and looked solemn, very seriously and I talk about: Do not have too much pressure to have the courage to overcome his illness…… At that time, I was Doule, persuaded him to say: OK, this is not what amazing things.
May be a small cultivate the habit, and I may also be relevant as a soldier, in the face of one thing I can think of the past, no big deal; I like to seize the initiative themselves, that one thing, I am sure to do a good job . The same disease, in accordance with the principle of doing things my life, is sick, I am also an excellent patient, a doctor with good will, understanding the disease and take the initiative to adjust their own.
China today: former Chinese Ambassador Wu Jianmin said the law you are "a great woman."
Jia Cuixia: as an outstanding diplomat, Ambassador Wu, the feelings of people around them, and his sensitivity to international relations is the same. He is very concerned about the relationship between colleagues, concerned about everyone in the embassy different location and the role played by each of his personal support for the work of the embassy have seen very heavy. I confirmed the disease after treatment, the most in need of family care, when France went to Shanghai 2010 World Expo bid to bid to become the primary work of the embassy at the time, as the Embassy Counselor and Director of the Office of the husband is responsible for a large number of hospitality and logistics Coordination. I do not have the disease because they distracted him, he fully into the work. As a diplomat's daughter and his wife, I think this is very normal, because diplomacy is no small matter, the country's interests above all else, let alone I am a cause of special value, no matter how much personal things can Fang Dexia, But work can not be put aside. Shenbo success of that moment, her husband first called me, he moved to tears, I thank for his support. I Miss Ambassador to the rise of such acts to a small to large to the embassy of the country's diplomatic cause a high degree of support, he thought I was the spirit, attitude to life has played the role of wife of a diplomat.
China today: the first place may not have the breast removed? »
Jia Cuixia: No, found the lymphatic cancer cells have. This means that the cancer cells anywhere in the body may have. In between the beautiful and life, to choose life, not life-how can they talk about beauty. But a woman speaking the truth in this difficult time for customs clearance, I was very mention of Amy. But it also has relations with age, if placed on 10 years ago, I might have another kind of choice, some may age more "pragmatic", life is the first.
China today: Your condition is very special, chemotherapy for nearly three years »
Jia Cuixia: breast cancer in cancer is a relatively light, the doctor said I in patients with breast cancer, is a rare, drug sensitivity poor, a drug sometimes just a few days work, with the Youmei, Basically used conventional medicine, and the optional drug has become increasingly less.
Doctors say, as I can with the treatment of such patients is not easy, is generally a period of chemotherapy should be stopped to rest for a period of time then again, but I can not stop, stop immediately increase the symptoms. Therefore always be in systemic treatment, and local radiotherapy are speaking to me a kind of wishful thinking.
Doctors often fear to try one after the treatment, each will tell me: you must be mentally prepared, we can only be further explored in the past, I do not know have any effect. I have become accustomed to, jokingly told the doctor: If the day you told me I have a certain effect on the drug, I would have to be adjusted to allow themselves to take psychology, this is true? » I Haigen the doctor said, I actively cooperate with and give you a chance to create miracles, I hope you also a pleasant surprise. They said this miracle too difficult, and I said okay, I have to enjoy the best medical conditions.
I am well aware of the seriousness of their illness and treatment are different from the general difficulty, but I still believe that the special medical, scientific development because it is now too fast, perhaps out of a drug, a disease to disappear completely, not the emergence of penicillin Is an example of this » Maybe I can go there one day, and so on.
I have been very fortunate, like what we can do, I always joke that my life may be too smooth, what a good thing God will not let me have a total, so use this disease to punish me, but this ordeal I have too much of it, not yet 2001, 2002, must so long.
"It is no less than illness raised a lot of things"
"I was not pasta, it is a lot of things Fangbu Xia." Jiacui Xia said she liked to think things through, would like to make clear, she said that they did a cool analysis: no worry about the children, her husband has no regrets, except for parents She Fang Buxia heart. Despite the very rational analysis, several times choked with Jia Cuixia not Jiangxia Qu, especially on the children, "rest assured" the reason, she Fanlaifuqu speaking many times. This is where the heart Fang Dexia, she obviously is to convince themselves and in their own ways to advance the future may not be the love child.
China today: It is not thought death »
Jia Cuixia: for the people how the disease may not think of death » A person to this point in time is often shown on the desire of Health, to me speaking, not pasta, it is a lot of things Fangbu Xia.
China today: as mothers, should be the most difficult to lay down their child.
Jia Cuixia: life in the countdown to enter the time, many mothers are the most Fang Buxia children. The son, I have nothing to worry about, no regret, from his living environment, education opportunities and I told him I think the requirements are good, I do not give him lot of pressure to have his own ideas , Has the capacity to differentiate right from wrong. In a certain sense also protect him from the "examination-oriented education" pressure, such as I have with others than children not only let him than with their own, as long as some progress today than yesterday on the line, I do not want his full-grade class row The first few, not because of a decimal point went wrong punish him, as long as he has to figure out the last line on the. Including the now go abroad to school, is wanted him to feel different from a domestic living environment, learning atmosphere and cultivate a learning capacity, rather than a mere accumulation of knowledge. Learning is a lifelong thing, the updating of knowledge so quickly, the key is to learn how to learn. As long as the establishment of a sense of learning, mastered the method of learning, must have the knowledge to guide the future life and work of awareness, learning of a person speaking is not difficult.
I was satisfied with the children, is also reassuring. Because he has a 20-year-old, is the man. I will train from his sense of independence, the boys I think the most important thing is independence, this independence is not only independent daily, including acts of an independent personality. Family and friends feel that he compared the same age children mature, this is my heart for Fang Dexia. Of course, as a mother, no matter how much their children are also children, not to mention he was 20 years old, has not yet entered the community, did not get married……
The children leave come back with me, we more exchanges De Ting, the son of aesthetic choices, the judgement of good and evil, and the point of view, dealing with the problem, let me appreciate and be assured. If one day I have what I will be assured of his son, inner relatively pleased that the children have a more mature, when the mother can not be with him all his life. I told my son to his hope for the future into the community, the study can not give it up, cause some success, full of love. The parents to guide and the opportunity we gave too, so there is no Fangxinbuxia it.
I often speak with the children, sick to my speaking is a helpless, as is the case, you told my mother to understand this process, the enjoyment of the process, understanding this process gives you a positive significance. If carefully to appreciate, and you will have a lot harvest will be rich than others, than others can take the future into the community more independence than others, more aware of the importance of the home, the family's important.
I think the man so that they experienced much experience there will be a sense of responsibility. I chat with my son said, he should cherish this process: this time a few months to accompany her mother in the side, if one day I have nothing wrong, you will be very comforting, because you do its Filial Piety, you will not Remorse and regret. And I was also very comforting, because I get sick child more love. I think this process depends on the children how to understand, how to understand, of course, the children alone will not do, depends on how parents to guide and lead a good, in terms of children is a wealth. He may be the future of life, life will be more concerned about the feelings will be more cherished.
China today: once because of ill feeling great pressure »
Jia Cuixia: After my illness is the most Fang Buxia my own parents. Parents age, this is the time to be unable to sons and daughters, sons and daughters should be done to give them a happy old age, if I can not do, this is a big regret. From this point of speaking, in this disease, my special emphasis on the psychological burden, or even unworthy of their parents……. In particular to Fengnianguojie the time, I should be at home and I can not go home when I will think of ways for parents not to feel desolate, with my approach is to look easy, I let them feel good.
Do you know the parents of sons and daughters of emotion, it is most conditions. I get sick, the thinking is taking advantage of their own dynamic, so that they go to Paris last Peipei their parents not to say anything, I told them I was sick, want to do treatment, my mother within a week on the run all the formalities Rushed to Paris, and this is the mother!
China today: Before I met your President, you talk about the disease deplores
Jia Cuixia: As a husband and wife for more than 20 years, I think we should go now is worth the treasure, a couple, a family can achieve the desired state also requires a process: From the newly married adjustments, and change each other, adjust their own, change The other, received deep-seated mutual recognition, life philosophy, Weirenchushi, the social phenomenon of the judgement, we can reach a consensus and understanding, to communicate, this is a very easy thing, I feel that we have to This realm, you can say run-in in place now, feeling very good in all aspects, can be given on the cause of his support, I think done quite well, so it has no regrets. It has been said I was "helping Cardiff fate", I jokingly told her husband: I help you in this life many, including the illness after another are used in a way to support and help you. However, such support is two-way, especially after the sick, I understand it, "Xiangruyimo" meaning. Over the past three years, I have to bear the physical pain, and he is faced by the spirit of life, work and other aspects of the enormous pressure, but in front of me, he has always been demonstrated by the optimistic belief, this is also a good support I A huge momentum alive.
"Take care of themselves is no longer his kind words addressed"
Jia Cuixia disease that brought her pain, but also gave her time to think about. She said that in their own lives to extract the meaning of health, she often told friends: Institute cherish their own bodies, or too late to regret it. Jiacui Xia said that compared with previous years is now more concerned about health, social progress This is a great performance. She said sometimes feel lucky: If the first five years of such concern and healthy environment, I may not have the disease - of course this can only be based on the assumption that.
China today: as career women, nostalgia is not quite work »
Jia Cuixia: There were several times, I feel better, we can immediately to work, but the doctors always told me: You have to cure. Then I found that the health of a person speaking more important. Also feel that, my sense is not so in place. I say that they are on the brilliant sunshine to the point, sometimes not out on the brilliant sunshine on the. How I say I work on the terms of a temptation. Former colleague called me, a little better, to the company, I will promise a few days should be able, you should understand the appeal of my work, people can experience the joy of self-realization. However, after repeated several times, I found that to be determined no longer to "additive", because it is a
I think that they like a ball, with little effort can make bombs and how high, the young man, regardless of work much more tired, take a break soon be restored to original condition, so desperately to work. Many people on its own understanding is: I still have the potential to be good to play, there are many opportunities to strive to, or lost. In fact, they are simply not aware of advances in health. In a sense, many of the disease is Zizhao.
China today: you are the tell a friend to drink plenty of water »
Jia Cuixia: I now urge the attention of friends body, the past is no longer used impetuous, very Shunzui the cliches, I will be specific to the "you must drink plenty of water, drink plenty of water to detoxification," This drink is the concept of pain I experienced It derives from it: I was not thirsty, fixed cups, it is a very bad habit.
However, the physical capital, the Institute cherish their own bodies, or too late to regret it. If there is a good body, how many things can do! Therefore, we must learn You Zhuodian children, do the things done today, if possible, tomorrow came with his family to travel together, to relax. Now fast-paced life, work and life of the people are great pressure, particularly career women, it's even in the Institute of pressure in the release of their own state, not the master plan, "I will……", his concern about the health of millions let alone the future , From now on is just the beginning.
In addition to life with some experience may be moved by the strength of others. The patients like me, have personal experience of people, to appeal to the people: the concern about under the prerequisite of life, have many other things. No matter how great the cause, the whole body is not good words. But I guess my friends in the wards is a feeling when, out of the hospital on Shenbuyouji.
China today: There is a saying, too delicate feelings of the women-in breast diseases
Jia Cuixia: I wonder if this has the support of medical theories, but I think that makes sense. Now obviously a phenomenon is that the life of habit, determine its risk of a disease.
I kind of character is relatively open, work Pola, but also in terms of emotion is too delicate, small compared Chongqing. You see this person I open the surface, things take a lot of heart.
China today: the sunny side of show to others, and left to their own pain to digest, too many of their commitment to things.
Jia Cuixia: right, just like you sum up this way. I appreciate the comparison a story: two living in the same ward patients, a person's wall beds, another person close to the windows of the beds, because they can not move all day, and around the windows of the wall of the patients gave patients Stresses the window of the scenery: the flowers outside the house, the clothes people wear more beautiful, sunny, light rain is more poetic in his…… on, the scenery always outside the United States. Later, while living in the windows of that person died, the patient asked for the wall near the windows to the bed, a day to themselves to see the scenery outside, he saw the results, the window there are only a wall.
I think that, including myself, like many Chinese women living in the window is the one that's always a lot of things to filter, the US-things appear to others.
China today: Is there any thought about: I do not want to, and I tired.
Jia Cuixia: Yes, but the scoring target, and occasionally in her husband there, "indulgence" to their emotions, and sometimes a special wish to crying, but the parents, children, is not possible
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